Frequently Asked Questions

Is premarital counseling required?
No premarital counseling is required.

Can we write our own vows?
Yes! To inspire you, check out the wedding ceremony samples.

How many readings are customary? Are there any restrictions on the choice of readings?
Typically there are 1-2 readings, and family members or guests are welcome to read them. There are no restrictions on readings or how many you can have.

Are there any restrictions on what you will and will not allow in a ceremony?
No restrictions!

Will you conduct the ceremony outside of a house of worship?
Because I am a non-denominational officiant, I perform ceremonies everywhere — there are no restrictions.

How long does a typical ceremony last?
The length is up to you, but ceremonies typically last about 15-20 minutes.

Is there a fee, honorarium, or requested donation? Is a deposit required?
There is a fee for officiating — see Wedding Ceremony Packages for details. A $100 deposit is requested to reserve your date and time. The balance is due any time prior to the start of the ceremony.

Will you be doing other weddings that day? What happens if you’re running late or can’t make it?
During wedding season it’s possible I’ll have another ceremony, but I never schedule two weddings that start within several hours of each other.

Will you lead a rehearsal?
In most cases your wedding or site coordinator leads the rehearsal. If you’d like me to attend, please contact me for pricing.

How many times would you like to meet with us before the wedding?
As many times as you’d like — we can go over details, have a cup of coffee, or answer any questions.

What authority do you have to perform legal ceremonies?
I am an ordained wedding minister with full legal authority to perform your wedding ceremony.

Will you be able to legally officiate at our wedding location?
I am legally authorized to officiate in California, Hawaii, and Arizona (Pima and Maricopa Counties). If you’re in another state I may need to register as an officiant — no additional fee for the extra paperwork.

Can you provide references from couples you’ve married?
Absolutely!

When do you sign the marriage license? At the ceremony or beforehand?
I arrive early to go over last-minute details and complete/sign the marriage license, so you can celebrate immediately after your ceremony with no interruption for signing documents.